May I add a suggestion: do not assume that your loved one will embrace "fight" or "battle" language. Though it's commonly used and many people identify with the idea of being a cancer warrior, it's appropriate to let the patient determine his own approach to the journey and avoid editorializing the experience (e.g. suffering, victim, etc).
In particular, the language can be triggering to those whose prognosis is not as positive or expected to be longer, and unintentionally puts the onus of the outcome on the patient. Most advocacy groups are moving against this language and have revisited their materials to avoid it, in particular when it relates to an individual's journey versus a collective effort.
So please listen first, and then follow a patient's lead!
May I add a suggestion: do not assume that your loved one will embrace "fight" or "battle" language. Though it's commonly used and many people identify with the idea of being a cancer warrior, it's appropriate to let the patient determine his own approach to the journey and avoid editorializing the experience (e.g. suffering, victim, etc).
In particular, the language can be triggering to those whose prognosis is not as positive or expected to be longer, and unintentionally puts the onus of the outcome on the patient. Most advocacy groups are moving against this language and have revisited their materials to avoid it, in particular when it relates to an individual's journey versus a collective effort.
So please listen first, and then follow a patient's lead!
Such a great point Gina! Agreed and well noted.